I link to many LGBT friends blogs from here (see my blog list on the right hand side of my pages). I take them down when they get "stale", when content is four months old. I also will not link to web sites that do not update their content on a regular basis and are just "front pages".
If I have removed your blog because, like the bread slice above, it has become "stale" contact me with a note card inworld and I will reinstate you. Please leave a note card, my IMs are now totally capped.